Friday, August 12, 2011

I feel like the worst POS on Earth, but I have to re-home two of my dogs... I have no other option..?

Research Pitbull rescues and no-kill shelters in your area. You can also ask your vet for suggestions.

Am I Still In Love With My Ex?

Alright everyone here's the deal, me and this guy, jason dated for about 10 months. on our ten month anniversary he broke up with me. one of my friends texted and said he texted her, so i asked him and he said no. then i went over to her house and she showed me the msgs. it wasnt saved in her phone so i knew it was him (i memorized his number) anyway so i mentioned to him that she showed me the messages and asked him about it again, then he dumped me. he was a total douche. i had the car, the job, the money, and i paid his phone bill for him ( keep in mind, the one he was using to cheat on me with) it was $125/month, ( Iphone) Anywho, when we broke up i was heartbroken, because i didnt do anything wrong, however it was a rocky relationship. for a while i was depressed about it. its been about 2 months since the break up (tomorrow wouldve been a year for us) and in this time i've realized how much of an *** he was to me. i'm noticing everything that i shouldve seen a while ago. now i dont have a job anymore, i stay home and babysit my 4 yr old sister, but she's gone til july... so i'm just at home all day. and i have plenty of guys trying to talk to me.. but i'm just not interested in any of them.. is jason still clinging in my mind somewhere? like preventing me from dating anybody else? are my emotions playing with me?? someone please help, sometimes i feel like i might be depressed, but i dont even know... please help:/

When does OTH season 8 start on E4?

Can't wait for it to start again! :-) I think it might start after the current series of 90210 finishes. Does anyone have any confirmation of this...or otherwise? Thanks x

Mmm... this is embarrassing but i need help..?

ok :$.. well ive been going out with my boyfriend for like 2 months, and we have kissed and well.. just like you feel mine, i feel ures:L.. and well.. its just he doesnt do it properly.. and never really satisfys me.. how do i tell him? im too embarrassed to say to him.. and also when i do it to him he stopped me and took my hand off:S, so now im scared to do it again i dont know what he wants.. help please. x

Would this disqualify me to become a police officer?

I joined the Army on june 14th 2008 I was in basic training for 4 weeks, injured my foot and recived a Other Than Honorable Discharge. No warrants no deserters status of any kind. I am wondering if this OTH would keep me from becoming a police officer, thank you in advance.

Christian opinions only! Pretty long, but please, maybe just a "yes u did the right thing" or "No u didnt"?

So I met this great guy last yr (@ a club on Halloween...I shouldnt have been there, but was. I dont go to clubs anymore), he was drinkin, but he was very nice. He was in town on business & he was 1st to tell me hes a Christian. He was respectful & we never even kissed after several times of goin out. We had connected w/o anything sexual. He was iffy about the distance & would only text every month or so. I finally said I want an actual friendship or none vs having a "sometimes friend". He said he wanted to get to know me better, so we did. After a couple months I had been prayin about a relationship w/him & I felt it was ok to pursue if it came up...it did & I accepted. I had known about his "social drinking" which I think was more than socially. I HATE drinkin since I grew up cleaning up after an alcoholic. He also said he had started chewing & this was also something that bothered me as I felt he was using these vices to cope w/stress at work. He even used the words "self medicating". He said he hated doin these things cuz they made him feel even more awful later & he wanted to get his relationship right w/Christ. I felt he was on the right track. So after we started datin for a couple wks. He mentioned smoking pot last year (another vice from his past that I didnt harp on since it was his past) I asked if he still does it & he said "sometimes". I started thinkin about these many addictions & realized as much as we LOVE each other I just CAN'T LIVE w/these things. I told him these things don't make me love him any less...I just can't/won't live with them. He was always tellin me not to change & I hadn't. He knew I had a problem with these things, but I thought he was on the right track. He said he wouldn't stop drinkin, but he wouldn't do pot anymore & was working on not chewing, but just on the weekends. I told him I wanted to be able to share Christ w/whoever Im with & having Christ as the center of a relationship will make it SO much better...he said "I'm not you". He said he wouldnt do these things if we had kids, so I asked him what about the gf he says he loves? He said it seemed as tho I would always stick by his side, so I told him, "If we were married & these things came up after...I would have". I want what God wants for me & shouldnt have to feel like I have to worry about whether he'll relapse. I said, "What vice or addiction is next?? This REALLY worries me." He has always battled depression & feels as tho the world is ALWAYS after him. His concern was that I had just said I wanted a life w/him & all of sudden sprung this on him, but after the drug thing I started realizing he may not really change forever. I asked him how long I'm guaranteed that he'll really stay drug free & he said, "I NEVER said I would quit forever." I just wanted to tell him before it got TOO far into it since his ex waited 3 yrs. She was the pastor's daughter & was supposed to be a "Christian", but they were havin sex for those 3 yrs. He was willing to commit to no sex until we got married. Keep in mind this was long distance & I wouldve eventually had to give up my family, my few friends & my job to live w/him 2500 mi away (which I wouldve done cuz I love him VERY much). He felt that since I loved him I should just turn a blind eye or act like these things arent happening. He said he doesnt expect me to be ok w/it or accept it, but how else could it possibly work?? This was my first bf & I'm 25 yrs old. I fall hard for guys, but I care for him so much I didnt wanna string it out. I understand it happened quickly, but I didnt wanna pretend like anything was wrong in my heart & I felt strong enough at this point to say Im sorry, but its JUST NOT RIGHT. I just want what God wants for me. He said he'd keep in contact w/me & check to see how Im doin, but Im not sure thatll really happen & thats ok. Did I do the right thing?

Will bankruptcy erase the debt i owe the national gaurd?

I was given the 10,000 bonus from the gaurd and then discharged OTH. Will bankruptcy erase the debt?