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First of all, your writing is really hard to understand. Second, like the song says "sometimes love just ain't enough". Third, if you were threatening him and doing all sorts of f'd up stuff after you and he broke up, it is crucial that you not get back together with him, even if he wants to. When people act crazy after break ups, it is a symptom of a bigger problem - that you have some issues to deal with; the only way to deal with those issues is to be alone. You may have anger management issues, insecurity issues, etc. - whatever they are, they need to be dealt with before you get into a relationship again, or your relationships will never work. My ex got really nasty (calling me a slutty has-been etc.) after I wouldn't take him back). That's not because he loves me - it's symptomatic of his problems in general; he is an extremely angry and sometimes cold hearted person who has a lot of hate in his heart. That isn't the type of person that anyone should be in a relationship with. Good luck.