Question for guys - what is wrong with him?

This is a common case of an insecure lover. The most possibly true outcome is that he is insecure and you too are not a match. You both are rich with the need to love and fall in love but not right for each other. It's a must to find a true love and the hardest challenge adults have. We have hints of what is real in these type of relationships, but they are yet to come and well worth it! Just remember love is not a fairy tale... Especially when you see all the mens / womens flaws:) including sickness, and bodily functions! That's the true test, but worth it:) good luck